[quote="MensHelpTv"]If a partner likes to use the fist on you or children then maybe the situation is not healthy.
I would say it has moved way past being unhealthy at this point and more around the illegal area. Using a closed fist to hit a woman or a child is irreprehensible behavior and should never be ignored. Nevermind leaving the relationship call the police and have them arrested.
Dating someone who has a drug problem is always tough but the best thing for them is their health and if that means they need to go to rehab then you say whatever you have to and get them there. Even if you dont plan on waiting around for them when they get out at least tell them that you are so they go get the treatment that they need. Once they become sober they should be single so they can focus on sober living before they get back into a relationship.
I wish people would stop blaming their childhoods for their cheating. Who didnt have a crappy upbringing? If you want to make excuses for yourself then you will never get what you want in life and you will always be a cheating loser fraud.
** by slipup * Some people are just born bad and when they con their way into your life .. sociopaths come to mind..as beatrice stated on her myspace her mother said god did not make bad people..screws behind her friends,family back and shows her fangs when caught.one lie after another calls me a psychopath when I made a stand .the book sociopaths next door lacked a bit but makes one think ..sociopaths by the numbers next
Yea, We as women and some men who are victims of cruel people usually get signs, and once that first sign comes we ignore the first sign. Get out run fast, dont look back. When people are drinking so much more than usual , thats one sign. If one person has white powder on their nose coming out from the bathroom on your second date, thats another sign. We get signs and choose to ignore because we dont want to be alone. Thats why its important to watch certain movies peertaining to relationships to give us an idea these things can really happen to us in this world.