The one telling the truth is always labeled "crazy"

[HellHathNoFury...]

People are so desperate to dismiss information and live in denial. My ex cheated on me and it made me realize that he lied to me about being broken up w/ his ex when him and I first got together. I was very vocal about it, but he's lying to everyone to try and deny it while saying that our 4 month relationship was actually only 2 weeks long and I just went nuts when he dumped me. What makes more sense that someone would go crazy after 2 weeks or that a cheater would lie to cover his ass?

I got a nasty message from his ex recently calling me a liar. I told her that the first night I slept w/ this guy was in a hotel and gave her the actual date. In her message she said she knew I wasn't with him that night b/c the cops pulled him over on his way home from the bar and escorted him to a hotel. Um...how often do cops pull people over for DUIs and then take them to a hotel instead of jail? I can almost understand believing the other bs he's lying about, but buying that story is just plain naive. Then she said "he even showed me the receipt from the room!" Of course he did, I was right there at the counter when he signed for it! No one was denying that he was there, but he wasn't alone.

I have never been in this position before and the part of it that is driving me crazy is that he gets to cheat, but get away with it while my name is the one being dragged through the mud. I just can't get over how badly people WANT to be lied to so they don't have to accept truth that hurts.

[morbid]

LOL she actually thought the cops escorted him to the hotel!!! What a ding bat!! He is a p*ssy for cheating and lying but damn he has got one dumb b*tch. And she feels confident enough to now attack you and call you a liar because she is so clueless.How the f*ck would you know that he stayed at a hotel that night and which hotel he was at.I bet he didnt even have to explain that part because his girlfriends IQ is about even with a 3rd grader. You know what though you should really just take a different approach with those liars. Just laugh at every single excuse he has and stay strong. When he gets angry and starts calling you names just laugh harder and tell him you feel sorry that he isnt man enough to live the life he wants. That will drive him nuts and he might even get so mad that he forgets all the lies he has told and starts spitting out the truth when he is in a rage. Dont expect a cheating liar to ever tell the truth and when you here someone repeat what he said dont get upset and say its not true just laugh and say ok if thats what he says happened. People will begin to realize that you have nothing to hide and his BS game will be over.

[theMIC]

Thats because good liars plan ahead and cover their tracks telling everyone you know exactly what they think you will say because they know you will say it becasue it is the TRUTH. When you say what happened you fall into their trap of making you look like a crazy person.I know people that do this and unless you have hard proof they will lie to everyone until the day they die.

[Gregoo]

Expect nothing less from a lying cheatin bastard.Dont let him label you as crazy without a fight!

[MyCrown]

I would rather be labeled crazy then labeled the guy who is dating a cheating wh*re

[Mr.Delight]

Becuz the truth always is so crazy nobody believes you

[Tpain]

Who cares if they lie and try to make you seem crazy. You know its not the truth and the truth always comes out eventually so they will look even worse after they are exposed for not only being a cheater but now a liar too. Everytime you get out of a cheating relationship you are anything but crazy. Crazy would be staying with them after they betrayed you.

[BBBallllah]

As long as you and the people you care about know the truth just let it go and dont hold resentment or you bring your own spirit down.

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