Posted By: doggonit |
12/13/13 8:32 PM
This is seriously the most immature website I’ve ever seen. Looking at the stories and comments I can see that those who use it are vastly lacking any form of tact. ….I’m almost at awe that this even exists; almost. Put simply, I can’t see how slandering another person’s name will make you feel any better. Another thing, the policy of the website is almost hilarious. It’s pretty much “hey don’t shoot the messenger”.
As I understand it, Joleen ex-husband did not write this, so why waste your time dude? Do you think your helping your “boy” out? Nah, all you’ve done is publicly embraced him. The marriage didn’t work out and now everyone, even complete strangers, know it. Most married adults know that it takes two to make a marriage work. So yeah Joleen cheated and you can talk about how wrong she was all you like but what you’re also saying is that her ex failed as a husband somehow.
Man and wife are more than just sexual partners they are best friends, even if the relationship doesn’t work out the love will still be there. Love is humble, meek and at times painfully stupid. It’s something that has to be refined; it can be very challenging work at times. The moment that you start to put yourself fist, the second you stop treating the person your with as a blessing/gift is the moment your pushing the other away. If you truly love as love should be, you’d never want to hurt the other person… That isn’t to say that you’d continue the relationship or that you wouldn’t be hurt, even anger is justified. But the love that should exist in an adult relationship, I.E. marriage, is never bitter. ….which is all this website is, a bunch of childish betterment.
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Posted By: doggonit |
12/13/13 8:34 PM
There is a lot of hurt and pain right now and I can understand it, I feel very, very sorry for the husband and I wish I could have prevented my friends actions…. But the marriage wasn’t working and was always going to shatter. That being said, the past is the past, heartfelt apologize have been made, every one lost. …why is this site here to cause more pain?
Furthermore, Seth if you see this, I’m not saying you’re not a horrible person nor am I saying that you deserved to be cheated on, no one does. What I am saying is that you can take all of this pain and turn it into knowledge and determination. Hopefully the two of you can understand how fragile and precious real love is, you can use all of the mistakes made (by everyone) and know how to respond to them in future relationships.
Friend of husband: Take down the page, please. You’re not helping anyone heal by putting this up.