He calls himself CJ. I was working at a liquor store about 5 months ago when CJ walked in and did his usual flirting. I always thought he was cute but flirting doesnt get you far with me. Lets just say he was very persistant. After he tried to get my number for a month, I finally gave in and gave it to him. He said he would call me when i got off work but instead he called me later that night. not a big deal. We then started hanging out and getting to know eachother and spending a lot of time together. He mentioned that he had a baby momma and they werent together. so i brushed it off. it wasnt till i started giving him rides home that i noticed he always had me drop him off at the corner (never in front of his house) so when i questioned him about it he said his baby momma will go crazy. but i was informed they werent together. after months of baby momma drama and him picking me over her. she left california to move to texas and took him children from him. I offerered this man a place to stay and gave him anything he asked for cuz i really thought he was a genuinly amazing sweet guy and thought he deserved the world. i was in love and i didnt want to give up on him.
One day...I woke up at my usual time to pick him up so he can take me to school. (i let him use my car) he didnt answer his phone and wasnt home. i called everyone who knew him and his family. no one had a clue where he was. i thought the worse. i was so scared for him. i looked for 6 hours for him. i came home crying and disraught. i did some online homework to pass the time hoping that he would call eventually. that didnt work so i went on facebook to check on his page and there she is! her post said "daddy is on his way home"
after meeting my parents and them fallin in love with him and all the great things we had. i still dont understand why he couldnt just tell me. instead he left without saying a word and broke my heart....she is 10 years older than him. all his friends told me he was just using me for my money and my car.
so ladies dont fall for this guy no matter how sweet he sounds they are all lies. dont give in!!! he wants your money and your car....
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Posted By: SpaceyLove |
12/14/12 11:33 PM
You talk about all of the things you did for him or gave him. You say nothing about what he gave you or did for you other than lying and cheating. Your parents obviuosly did't know that you were taking care of him. I find it hard to believe that any parent would love someone who is using their child. If he really deserves the world, he is an able bodied person, let him get it himself. He is Not your PiMP, Nor is any other man for that matter. Stay in school and take care of yourself. You lost nothing of value by losing him. Best wishes.
Posted By: syriangrl24 |
12/15/12 7:02 AM
All I was trying to say is that he's a user. I'm not sayin I don't blame myself for giving into all of it but that's whyim trying to warn other girls to not make that mistake with him hes a great manipulator. And a great liar. So thanks for your input but ask next time before u think u know something. All I did was post a bad person and that's what this site is for. Any guy that leads a girl on that bad and just leave one day without saying a word is not a good person or trustworthy.
Posted By: SpaceyLove |
12/15/12 4:25 PM
For the most part I simply repeated back to You what You said about the realtionship. Perhaps some of the words I used seem to be a bit condescending, but my intentions are honorable. You should reread your own post.....stop selling your self short. You are worth so much more. As I said, you did not lose anything of value by losing him. Blessings.
Posted By: wekavi |
1/10/13 8:07 PM
Spacey is telling you the truth. Dont give money to someone who wont give YOU anything. Find a man who works and has his own things. This eliminates him needing to use you. It makes the relationship more balanced. You'll be happier because you know your being loved for who YOU are and not what you have to offer materially. Loaning or giving money to a BUM shows him your desperate and open to being used. No baby daddies. They dont VALUE women, children , sex or relationships. If they did, they would PLAN when and with whom they impregnate.