During our 2 and a half year engagement, Megan was a compulsive liar and cheater. She genuinely is not capable of a monogamous relationship and will sleep with other men as an emotional defense mechanism when hurt. During our relationship, she casually slipped the ring from her finger and ****ed 9 confirmed men, on over 30 confirmed occasions. 2 were ex boyfriends, the rest she met in bars, clubs, gyms, or at church. I say confirmed because when she was caught I demanded details, including phone numbers of the other men. She would hide the truth till the bitter end but in all of the instances I stated, she either admitted guilt or I spoke with the guy. I am SURE there are other men and occasions I know nothing about.

Every time this happened i either got angry and quit, or tried to resolve it...either way, in my eyes she was my wife and i couldn't give up on her. After swearing on her life it would never happen again, each and every time, my heart believed she was capable of change; she wasnt. Often, she even went as far as to create accounts on multiple social networking sites, such as PlentyofFish.com, eHarmony, and the like. Upon meeting other men, she met them in person, and immediately following an argument, spent the night at one of their homes. Discovering these accounts and hearing what happened crippled our relationship further, but I forgave her again and tried to move on. Ironically, she re-created new profiles on two consequent occasions, in different names trying to conceal her infidelity from me. This continued for sometime until eventually we reached a breaking point. Megan moved home to Cali in the beginning of 2012, but not long went by before we started missing one another. After many long discussions and promises, assuring past transgressions would never be repeated, we got back together, and amazingly enough, the infidelity continued. After signing up for a Match.com account, she has slept with an additional 2 men, totaling 11, gone on multiple dates, drank at many bars and danced her heart out, suggestively grinding her body into complete strangers...all the while, her loving, yet stupid fiancé stood by the sidelines. More often than not, she would adhere to her fabricated stories, to all lengths in hopes of getting away with it. It's not until you actually tell her what you know and how you found out, will she come clean, and admit guilt.

I believe to my very core she is INCAPABLE of fidelity, and honesty.

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