I met my b*stard husband in London through friends. I fell in love with him right away and thought he was the one. I filed paperwork so he can move here to LA with me and right before the wedding I heard rumors he was in the bathroom f*cking some French girl. Of course he pulled the whole 'who you gonna believe ME or everyone who saw it?" Being that I loved him I chose him over anyone. So we got married, he would go out and DJ when I was working at nights. At times I would see all these numbers texting him at 2-3am after he said he would be home. One time I looked at his phone and some girl was talking how 'good it was being with him'. I woke him up and he broke his phone so I couldnt look at it. By then I was really resenting him, I knew what he was doing and I know I was acting crazy suspicious, w I wanted to cheat on him too but I didnt, I wanted so badly to be in love again with the man I once loved. More and more it was just beginning to disappear, I started to see a therapist because he really convinced me that I was a crazy bit*h who had NO REASON to suspect him. Finally one night HIS friend texted me at work, he saw him making out with some broad. The worst part was all my friends were there at the same place, he just walked down the street and did what he did. Turns out hes been banging some ghetto looking bit*h from work. He says he loves her and shes been the only one there for him. The problem is he never wanted to talk to me about our issues, our relationship. I always did. Hes a weak, piece of crap for a man and I wanted to die after I found out. I still do. He still makes it seem like hes so sad, but hes still banging this bit*h happy hes finally single, he waited long enough so he can get his permanent residency card, when he could have told me before then and I wouldnt have to see his stupid face again, he coulda been out of here.. I hate him, but I still love him. I want him to get the f*ck out the country and he wont. Ill do whatever it takes. Any ideas?
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Posted By: XposinHos |
3/02/12 9:20 AM
Move on and cut all ties with him. Seriously.
Posted By: hobos |
3/02/12 4:15 PM
omg X the troll being nice for a change...did he marry you for the green card if so see if you can have him sent back
Posted By: Didntwanttobelieve |
3/04/12 6:42 PM
I really don't think he married me for the green card but I hate that he waited so long to dump me, when he coulda done it before we completed any paperwork. I just wonder if he was with this bit*h since then is why I'm upset. Obviously he was messing with someone after finding all the crap I did. I still love him so much, and at times I just want to hold him so bad but I get angry too for hurting me beyond belief. Nobody deserves to be treated like this no matter how bad our situation is. I always though there was nothing we couldn't work out, that our love was that strong. Boy was I wrong.
Posted By: HelloLiar |
3/04/12 10:56 PM
I agree with Xposin. You were dealt a bad hand. It's the hardest thing to do, but just cut ties. I know exactly how you feel - against every 6th sense in you, and all the red flags, he kept telling u to trust him, and you did. He made you feel pathetic and crazy and you became someone that just wasnt you. No you didn't deserve it, and all I can tell you is understand you'll be weak, and if u don't cut ties now, a guy like this will wait for your moment of weakness. And the pain will continue longer. Cut all ties as best as you can.