So this begs the question, how do you know if you can trust the girl you are with? AskMen.com shares some key points to let you know if the girl you are dating is trustworthy and some hints that she totally is not.
If a girl is planning on using you and then kicking you to
the curb, she won’t bother introducing you to her friends and family. Chances
are if you have met the majority of , she’s planning to keep you around
for a while. Having open, friendly relations with the people in her life is a
good sign of her reliability.
Take note of her interactions with her friends and family. Does she frequently have screaming fights with her sister? Are you used to hearing about what a terrible person her best friend is? If she is constantly in conflict with or gossiping about the people that are supposed to be closest to her, it’s a sign that she might not be as trustworthy as you would like.
Being able to trust a girl has a lot to do with reliability
and availability. If you can count on her to show up when she says she will,
return your phone calls quickly and be open with her schedule, she’s probably
If, on the other hand, she’s the kind of girl who breaks plans at the last minute, takes days to call you back and is secretive about plans that don’t include you, you may have something to worry about. Of course, you shouldn’t have to keep tabs on her every move throughout the day, but a girlfriend you can trust will communicate with you on regular basis and not hide things from you.
She has normal relations with exes
Some people are excellent liars, but even the best will get eventually.
Even little white lies can be a problem if they are told frequently enough.
Even if it’s about something as silly as her real hair color, a lie is an
indication that she doesn’t have trouble deceiving you. Trivial falsehoods can
grow into major betrayals in no time. So if you catch her in a lie, call her on
it and ask her why she didn’t tell you the truth. If you have never found out
she has lied to you, it either means she’s a champion fibber or she really is
truthful and worthy of your . Your gut
will tell you which one applies.
The only way you’ll know for sure if you can trust the girl
you’re is through time and experience.
It’s almost impossible to know for certain if you can truly trust someone after
only a few weeks, but if she proves herself loyal, reliable and honest over
time, you’ll know you have found yourself a good one.
Are you running for the hills or do you feel better after reading this? What do you think? Are these signs that a girl is untrustworthy accurate? Think of your past relationships.