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Garcelle Beauvais Opens Up About Her Husbands Infidelity
Article by: CheaterVille Staff
July 27, 2012

Garcelle Beauvais Opens Up About Her Husbands Infidelity

You may remember in 2010 when the NYPD Blue star, Garcelle Beauvais, was blindsided when she found out that her husband, Michael Nilon, of nine years had cheated on her.  

Beauvais had found a text message catching her husband’s act of betrayal and was so angry that she sent an email about his affair to his colleagues and friends.  She was devastated and humiliated.

Today, Beauvais is in a much better place; through therapy, she has found courage and has forgiven Nilon.  She has recently opened up about her heartbreak in a blog for People.com explaining her lack of knowledge to the affair and much more.  

She writes, "In 2010, I had everything I had always wanted. I had been happily married to my husband for nearly a decade. I was watching an entertainment show about Sandra Bullock and her unfaithful husband, and I thought, 'How did she not know?' Well, it happens. In fact, it happened to me. And I had absolutely no idea."

"You see, I thought I had won the lotto in husbands. Caring? Check. Attentive? Check. Loyal? Well, un-check. It only took one text message to change my life. That's when I discovered my loving husband had been unfaithful. His infidelities ended our marriage."

"The shock was like a freight train hitting me. The pain was unimaginable. I couldn't breathe. I wanted to exit my body like a character in a cartoon. I had so many questions. What happens next? Do I stay for the sake of the kids? Do I stay because, well, that's what some women do? And oh my God, what do I do with all of this anger?"

Beauvais and Nilon called it quits but have found a way to be on good terms for their kids.

She adds, "With the help of therapy, time and some books that gave me the courage to face my pain, I found a way to cope with my divorce. More importantly, my ex and I put our love for our children above everything else. We have even come to a place where we can hang out together with our boys to make sure they have a solid, stable upbringing."

"It hasn't been easy... and I admit that at first, my rage threatened to break my spirit. You may have heard about the angry email I fired off to some of his colleagues and friends of ours. (I did it hours after I found out the truth, and I never expected it to leak to the press. But in the digital age, I guess nothing is private. Lesson learned.)"

"Adultery is the ultimate deal-breaker for me. I would rather be alone than in a relationship that doesn't honor me. First, I had to mourn for the marriage I thought I had. I had to forgive him, but I also had to absolve myself for not seeing the warning signs; for choosing this man. Achieving forgiveness lifted an enormous weight off of my shoulders. It made me light in the best way."

Source: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/entertainment/Garcelle+Beauvais-250052.html


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Posted By: ViciousKid | 7/27/12 2:28 PM
if she was humiliated she shouldnt of sent a mass email to everyone they know
Posted By: HardKnocked | 7/27/12 3:07 PM
I bet Jamie Foxx is going to hit that now
Posted By: vixen666 | 7/27/12 3:42 PM
"You see, I thought I had won the lotto in husbands. Caring? Check. Attentive? Check. Loyal? Well, un-check." Just an act so he can use you as a stepping stone for other chicks
Posted By: Culadrink | 7/30/12 3:23 PM
She is too beautiful to be cheated on! What a loser her ex is!
Posted By: Mugmy | 7/30/12 3:29 PM
One more sexy lady on the market so that doesnt bother me one bit!

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