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10 Things That Guys Say When They Cheat
Article by: CheaterVille Staff
April 25, 2012

10 Things That Guys Say When They Cheat

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever thought you were being cheated on but at the same time thought you were just being paranoid? How do you know if there is no hard evidence? Thinking you’re being cheated on can drive a girl crazy!

According to Relationship coach Marcelina Hardy, there are 10 things that men say when they cheat…

1. SHE’S JUST A FRIEND…

You discover he’s been talking to someone new, who is a female. He hasn’t said anything to you about her before you finding out about her and when you ask him if you can meet her, he objects. It’s because she’s really not a friend, she’s a girlfriend.

2. RESPECT MY PRIVACY.  DON’T TOUCH MY PHONE…

He doesn’t want you to touch his phone for fear that you will either see text messages from her or that she will send one just as you pick it up. He may even have pictures of her on his phone.

3. YOU ARE CHEATING ON ME, AREN’T YOU?

Yes, men who cheat will accuse their partner of cheating. Why? It’s because they start to think, “Well, if I can do it, she could do it too.”

 

4. YOU AREN’T GOOD ENOUGH…

All of sudden he pokes at all of the things you do wrong and you have no idea what his problem is. He can’t cheat if he loves you or he thinks that you are good to him. So he makes himself believe that you aren’t good enough for him and that’s why he had to turn to someone else. In reality, you are more than good enough.

6. I HAVE TO STAY AFTER TO CATCH UP ON WORK…

All of a sudden he has more work than he knows what to do with and he can’t come home when he normally does. It’s because he’s not really at work, instead he’s meeting with his girlfriend without worry that you’ll catch him.

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7. I STILL LOVE YOU AND WANT TO BE WITH YOU…

He says he loves you and wants to be with you; yet, he strayed and told someone else the same thing. It’s because he wasn’t having the affair because he didn’t love you anymore, he had it because he was disillusioned from reality. When reality hit, he finally realized what he had to lose…you.

8. I DIDN’T WANT TO HURT YOU…

He’s right, when he went out to have the affair, he wasn’t thinking, “I am going to sleep with this other woman because I want to hurt her so incredibly bad.” Instead, he did it for his own selfish reasons without giving any thought to how it would hurt you.

10. SHE MEANS NOTHING TO ME…

She might not mean anything to him or he’s lying. Usually, Men who have affairs may not have wanted to get involved emotionally, but after sleeping with them multiple times, feelings start to develop. So, in most cases, he’s lying that she means nothing to him, what he really means to say is that he doesn’t want her over you.

 

Cheating isn’t always the case, but there is a good chance it could be happening.  If you have ever been cheated on, looking back did any of the above 10 things come out of your boyfriend’s mouth? 

 

Source: http://love.allwomenstalk.com/things-men-say-when-they-cheat/


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Posted By: questioned | 4/25/12 11:36 AM
What girl hasnt heard one of these lame excuses...
Posted By: Restriction | 4/25/12 12:20 PM
11. But I love you baby come on now
Posted By: NitroTime | 4/25/12 12:33 PM
If you listen to a cheaters reasoning it makes you want to vommit and throw things at the wall. They are only sorry that they were caught.
Posted By: NachoGurl | 4/25/12 1:00 PM
2. REPECT MY PRIVACY If your man says this to you then he is hiding something from you. He may not have cheated but he is flirting or doing something he knows that you dont want to see it.
Posted By: StandardPracticeMan | 10/09/12 6:55 PM
bull****
Posted By: 100proof | 4/25/12 1:05 PM
Oh baby youuuuuu got what I neeeeeeed but you say hes just a friend
Posted By: immee | 4/26/12 11:31 PM
Oh god i heard most of those yet i still fell for it. Feel so stupid after believing that that do*che bag could actually care about me really. You know i really dont see a point in cheating if you are with someone and want someone else. Break up with them, doesnt matter how much it will hurt them it will hurt them alot less that cheating.
Posted By: StandardPracticeMan | 10/09/12 6:54 PM
Oh the hypocrisy. As if women are innocent in things like this. get off your high horse
Posted By: Babydoll22 | 12/04/12 4:33 PM
What does it mean if the guy tells you where he is going to his co worker house to help hang a wall hanging should u believe that. Im affraid to get cheated on
Posted By: lorrra | 2/24/13 6:51 AM
To the author: you're kidding, right? There are only 8 listed here; numbers 5 and 9 are missing. Smooth.

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